A 3-month course for women
who finally want to uncover the deep pleasure
our bodies were built to bring us.
who finally want to uncover the deep pleasure
our bodies were built to bring us.
This program is for you if...
- you struggle to make time to put your needs and desires first
- you barely know what you want and like anymore
- you wonder if you've ever been satisfied to the degree you want to believe is possible
- you have a hard time knowing how to ask for what you want and receive it in return
- your libido has disappeared and you're scared
- you're close to giving up on ever having the kind of intimacy you desire
Perhaps you're in a relationship that too often leaves you feeling resigned and disappointed
OR you've opted to remain single rather than try again and end up in yet another unfulfilling relationship where you're accommodating and making do.
I've designed this program to help you break the oh-so-common relationship cycle of
high hopes
crushing disappointment
the fights and hurts
and the break ups that follow...
only to find yourself back in the same pattern
with partner after partner.
Or - so sadly - you're just staying put
and giving up on ever having the intimacy you've most desired.
I get this pattern. I've been there.
For decades, in fact!
The way out for me wasn't in changing partners (though I tried that) or getting great tantra training (did that, too) or going to dozens of couples retreats. Nor was it sitting through hundreds of hours of therapy, and reading every personal growth book out there on relationships, intimacy, and sexuality.
I'm sure all of that helped.
But I was still waiting for a kind of intimacy I could almost taste, but just couldn't seem to manifest.
I'm sure all of that helped.
But I was still waiting for a kind of intimacy I could almost taste, but just couldn't seem to manifest.
What it finally took
was accessing a deeper intimacy with myself!
Then I could know more clearly and communicate what I truly desired.
I learned how to welcome, honor, and enjoy the wholeness of myself,
without having to make my partner change
in order for me to know it.
The changes I'd longed for finally did happen,
just not in the ways I'd been trying.
was accessing a deeper intimacy with myself!
Then I could know more clearly and communicate what I truly desired.
I learned how to welcome, honor, and enjoy the wholeness of myself,
without having to make my partner change
in order for me to know it.
The changes I'd longed for finally did happen,
just not in the ways I'd been trying.
Hi... My name is Mary Campbell.
Now approaching my mid-60's, I've learned a thing or two about life. I was busy parenting three tween children in my mid-40s and living what looked to all the world like the perfect life, but I was deeply unhappy in my marriage and life. And everything I'd tried hadn't worked.
In 2003 I experienced what I now think was a kundalini awakening while on a vision quest in a remote canyon in Utah. All I knew then was that my body came alive as my heart exploded in lovemaking to embrace every aspect of Nature as the Divine. Quite a change for the soccer mom I'd been!
Now approaching my mid-60's, I've learned a thing or two about life. I was busy parenting three tween children in my mid-40s and living what looked to all the world like the perfect life, but I was deeply unhappy in my marriage and life. And everything I'd tried hadn't worked.
In 2003 I experienced what I now think was a kundalini awakening while on a vision quest in a remote canyon in Utah. All I knew then was that my body came alive as my heart exploded in lovemaking to embrace every aspect of Nature as the Divine. Quite a change for the soccer mom I'd been!
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As I returned to base camp I was asked what I would bring back to my people. It was then that I realized my life's work... to help women learn to say yes and no. Somehow I knew this was what I most needed to learn, in life and the bedroom!
Later the following year, through a powerful EMDR session, I began to regain the memory of a childhood molestation. |
Whether that was the origin of my struggles with physical and emotional intimacy in relationships or not, I began the decade's bold adventure toward healing and reconnecting to my own passion.
Over the next few years I trained with the Divine Feminine Institute and served as a practitioner and sexual educator for their 10-day retreats. I studied with intimacy luminaries Caroline Muir, Sheri Winston, Layla Martin, Jaiya, Saida Desilets, and with the Source School of Tantra and the Institute for Exceptional Marriage. I eventually started teaching female sexual qigong and jade egg practice privately and on retreat to women wanting to live their full sensual potential.
I'd learned so much, but I knew there had to be more. So in my early 50s I embarked on a two-year course of study at One Spirit Interfaith Seminary in NYC and began working weekly with spiritual teacher and counselor Miranda Macpherson. I wanted to unite my body, mind, psyche, and soul into a more coherent whole. This was the final piece of the puzzle.
Over the next few years I trained with the Divine Feminine Institute and served as a practitioner and sexual educator for their 10-day retreats. I studied with intimacy luminaries Caroline Muir, Sheri Winston, Layla Martin, Jaiya, Saida Desilets, and with the Source School of Tantra and the Institute for Exceptional Marriage. I eventually started teaching female sexual qigong and jade egg practice privately and on retreat to women wanting to live their full sensual potential.
I'd learned so much, but I knew there had to be more. So in my early 50s I embarked on a two-year course of study at One Spirit Interfaith Seminary in NYC and began working weekly with spiritual teacher and counselor Miranda Macpherson. I wanted to unite my body, mind, psyche, and soul into a more coherent whole. This was the final piece of the puzzle.
For the past decade I've had the deep joy of coaching and counseling privately on Zoom with women like you and their partners. I'm here to tell you that there is a more intuitive and powerful way to revive your pleasure than years of working on yourself in therapy, trying new positions, buying fancy toys, and listening to endless Esther Perel podcasts.
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I've tried it all (I was even lucky enough to have a private day-long with Esther herself!).
I am pleased to say that thanks to the many wise guides and my years of searching I've been able to craft an effective and joy-filled way back to the fulfillment I'd always known had to be there. And why I want to give back. |
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I believe that we want more than tips and positions and talk therapy. The women I know want to enjoy the wholeness of a dynamic and embodied relationship with themselves and to bring all that's possible to their partnerships.
Maybe you've been through relationship struggles like me...
You get excited about someone and fall in love. You swim in all that new relationship energy.
The high feels fantastic for a while. And the love grows.
But then you start to notice that sex is getting same old-same old. The generosity that was easy for you to offer at first begins to feel more like over-giving, accommodating to what they like way more than getting what really works for you.
You've tried to communicate what you like and at first that helped. But, well.... it doesn't seem to be working so well any more. Frustration builds to resentment. You watch yourself morphing into a pissy, judgmental bitch. You! You're the one who's been GIVING SO MUCH!
Boy, do I know!!
So you eventually throw up your hands and quit the relationship, thinking you missed the signs of your partner's selfishness. You berate yourself for settling so long and hope for better next time.
Or you make do with what you have. You can't have it all, right? You get used to the inevitable status quo. It's ok most of the time, because so much else is working. You can usually put a good face on it and focus on work or kids or.... There are more important things than sex, right?
You get excited about someone and fall in love. You swim in all that new relationship energy.
The high feels fantastic for a while. And the love grows.
But then you start to notice that sex is getting same old-same old. The generosity that was easy for you to offer at first begins to feel more like over-giving, accommodating to what they like way more than getting what really works for you.
You've tried to communicate what you like and at first that helped. But, well.... it doesn't seem to be working so well any more. Frustration builds to resentment. You watch yourself morphing into a pissy, judgmental bitch. You! You're the one who's been GIVING SO MUCH!
Boy, do I know!!
So you eventually throw up your hands and quit the relationship, thinking you missed the signs of your partner's selfishness. You berate yourself for settling so long and hope for better next time.
Or you make do with what you have. You can't have it all, right? You get used to the inevitable status quo. It's ok most of the time, because so much else is working. You can usually put a good face on it and focus on work or kids or.... There are more important things than sex, right?
What I've watched more times than I care to count
is that we end up
failing ourselves and our partners
because we just don't know how to bring
all of ourselves to the table (or the bedroom!)
We end up frustrated and disappointed... and they don't get the chance to be the partner they genuinely wanted to be, guided expertly by your truth and wisdom.
Good news - There IS
a better way.
This Winter and early Spring -- for the first time ever -- I'll be offering
a small group coaching course
for women who want more in the bedroom and beyond.
I'll introduce many of the same high gradient teachings I suggest to my private clients.
I'll share how I cracked the code
on the patterns that kept me unhappy,
frustrated with my partners,
dissatisfied in bed,
making do with limited pleasure,
and continually longing for more.
a small group coaching course
for women who want more in the bedroom and beyond.
I'll introduce many of the same high gradient teachings I suggest to my private clients.
I'll share how I cracked the code
on the patterns that kept me unhappy,
frustrated with my partners,
dissatisfied in bed,
making do with limited pleasure,
and continually longing for more.
About the program
Seven 75-minute Zoom sessions over 3 months
February 14 - May 9,
every other Monday, 4 PM Eastern
February 14 - May 9,
every other Monday, 4 PM Eastern
Session 1 - February 14 (a Valentine's Gift to yourself)
Why it’s so hard to ask for what you want
Uncovering your limiting beliefs about pleasure
Session 2 - February 28
Masculine and feminine energies in life and the bedroom
Learning to trust your desires again - re-membering who you are and what you need
Session 3 - March 14
Women’s Bodies, our changes and libido
Why things work -- and sometimes don't
Session 4 - March 28
Expanding your capacity to receive
Giving yourself permission to want what you want
Session 5 - April 11
Overcoming your outworn shoulds and old habits
How to ask for what you want and get it
Session 6 - April 25
Deepening your sensual/sexual dimensionality
Discovering all that's possible for you!
Session 7 - May 9
May Day/Beltane Celebration of your Erotic Nature
Expanding your unapologetic relationship with pleasure
Session 1 - February 14 (a Valentine's Gift to yourself)
Why it’s so hard to ask for what you want
Uncovering your limiting beliefs about pleasure
Session 2 - February 28
Masculine and feminine energies in life and the bedroom
Learning to trust your desires again - re-membering who you are and what you need
Session 3 - March 14
Women’s Bodies, our changes and libido
Why things work -- and sometimes don't
Session 4 - March 28
Expanding your capacity to receive
Giving yourself permission to want what you want
Session 5 - April 11
Overcoming your outworn shoulds and old habits
How to ask for what you want and get it
Session 6 - April 25
Deepening your sensual/sexual dimensionality
Discovering all that's possible for you!
Session 7 - May 9
May Day/Beltane Celebration of your Erotic Nature
Expanding your unapologetic relationship with pleasure
What You Get
Your investment...
This 3-month group coaching experience is valued at $749.
But... because this is the first time I am offering this course,
(just this once!)
I'm setting the founding members' price at just $329.
I will be limiting this initial class to 8 women, so you'll have plenty of attention.
If this is speaking to you and you'd like to know more,
click here to schedule a time to talk
But... because this is the first time I am offering this course,
(just this once!)
I'm setting the founding members' price at just $329.
I will be limiting this initial class to 8 women, so you'll have plenty of attention.
If this is speaking to you and you'd like to know more,
click here to schedule a time to talk
You may register at the stand-alone price of $329 for the complete 3-month
"No More Making Do" program here.
"No More Making Do" program here.
And if you'd like augment the group experience by scheduling
a private session with me at the start and/or finish of the program
I'm happy to deduct $100 from my $250 standard rate.
Feel free to schedule additional one-on-one sessions with me here.
a private session with me at the start and/or finish of the program
I'm happy to deduct $100 from my $250 standard rate.
Feel free to schedule additional one-on-one sessions with me here.
How Exactly Does This Work?
What happens once I sign up?
- You'll get an onboarding email with all the deets from yours truly.
- You'll add yourself to our private Facebook group, where you'll begin to meet the women who will have your back as you prepare for the adventure we're about to have together.
- You'll mark your calendar for our bi-weekly group coaching calls, held every other Monday from 4 - 5:15PM EST starting February 14 and ending on May 9, 2022.
Why is group coaching so powerful?
Here's the truth! We were never meant to do life on our own. Humans are connectors by nature.
When you hear other women's thoughts and share your own experiences, you remember that you are not alone. When women validate your experience within the structure and safety of agreements and a profound sisterhood, you find support and accountability to make the small but powerful shifts that help you relax out of old and dysfunctional patterns of thought and behavior.
Witnessed by women who vow to see you in your highest, you receive the powerful energetic grounding of a bonded community, offering irrefutable evidence that we are held through our struggles and celebrated in our victories. Because, My Dear, there will be MANY!
We needed healthy training to learn how to ask for what we want. We've rarely had good examples of asking and learning to receive. And without them, especially for many of us independent women who’ve learned how to make it on our own, asking just hasn't worked. So we slip into demanding or feel like we're begging. Y U C K!!!
Real freedom
comes from relaxing into a deeper place within yourself.
This is not about fixing you! You are not broken. It's about taking responsibility for your part in the dance, and looking with compassion and kindness at the patterns of thought and behavior that haven't worked so well, and finally feeling safe enough in yourself to excavate their origins with compassion and kindness and leave them behind.
Then there's more room to create new pathways of pleasure resulting in the kind of lovemaking - in the bedroom and in life - that you most want & are worthy of.
Then there's more room to create new pathways of pleasure resulting in the kind of lovemaking - in the bedroom and in life - that you most want & are worthy of.
When you break this life-long pattern of over-accommodating, you will discover more agency and capacity than you ever imagined to create the life you desire.
Breaking the pattern frees you.
Through these 3 months with me, you will begin to:
- Discover more of what you want and like in the bedroom
- Unwind the shame and blame cycle motivated by your old idealized self image
- Relax your oh-so-familiar inner critic voice
- Feel stronger, fuller, and more powerful as a woman
- Become more honest and kind with yourself
- Discover and relish the true source of your value
- Feel more accepting of your partner and yourself
- Shift your mindset from criticism to one of exploration and experimentation
What others say about working with Mary
Doubts are natural.
Maybe you're thinking "I've already tried everything! Why would this program be any different?
The change that needs to happen will come from a shift in your internal focus instead of looking to someone else for the answers. True self-empowerment can only come from knowing who you are and what you like... and learning how to move past the hesitancies to asking for it with sensitivity and confidence. Sharing in a safe space with respectful women who have your back will help you remember and live the wholeness you were meant to enjoy.
Sex is just over for me. Isn’t that how it is after menopause?
I thought that too. I thought I just wasn’t the kind of woman who had great sex. But now at 64, my intimate life has never been better. I promise you, there’s still hope! And while age absolutely changes our bodies, your maturity and self-knowledge can also free you up to go for more of what you most want - and get it!
It’s not me who needs to change; it’s my partner! They just don't want to grow. They think it's all my problem, and I'm beginning to believe them.
This isn’t about trying to fix them OR you. After a number of partners - and the same old pattern repeating itself over and over - I’ve discovered that real change and the power to live the sexually fulfilled life I want is in my hands. You’ll be learning how to build internal safety and let go of a lifetime of defensive and accommodating habits you thought you needed, believing they would keep your tender heart safe. Real growth can happen when you finally choose to drop your definitive expectations of yourself and/or your partner and take the matter into your own beautiful hands.
I thought that too. I thought I just wasn’t the kind of woman who had great sex. But now at 64, my intimate life has never been better. I promise you, there’s still hope! And while age absolutely changes our bodies, your maturity and self-knowledge can also free you up to go for more of what you most want - and get it!
It’s not me who needs to change; it’s my partner! They just don't want to grow. They think it's all my problem, and I'm beginning to believe them.
This isn’t about trying to fix them OR you. After a number of partners - and the same old pattern repeating itself over and over - I’ve discovered that real change and the power to live the sexually fulfilled life I want is in my hands. You’ll be learning how to build internal safety and let go of a lifetime of defensive and accommodating habits you thought you needed, believing they would keep your tender heart safe. Real growth can happen when you finally choose to drop your definitive expectations of yourself and/or your partner and take the matter into your own beautiful hands.
Of course, you don't have to do anything...
You could just go on as things have been. That's one option. But you know the problematic pattern will likely continue. You'll keep feeling frustrated, disappointed, and avoiding sex. Or you'll try again and again, but bring the same old pattern into future relationships, sabotaging your happiness in the bedroom & in life.
Or you could commit to investing 90 days with me and the support of 7 other wise women to finally relax the patterns that have been blocking your pleasure -- from the inside out -- and set yourself free to enjoy years of the intimacy and pleasure you've been longing for.
Or you could commit to investing 90 days with me and the support of 7 other wise women to finally relax the patterns that have been blocking your pleasure -- from the inside out -- and set yourself free to enjoy years of the intimacy and pleasure you've been longing for.
If you're ready to break the old patterns and explore how to access the pleasure you desire once and for all - without going through the agony of another breakup or forever making do - then this program is for you.